How To Care Less

I definitely care too much about what others think of me. I drive myself  crazy with thoughts about what impact I leave on others. I make my own little problems a lot bigger just because I say myself that I need to do things because of others. I simply neglect my own feelings because I’m too invested in the thoughts about others and how I can make everyone around me happy.  Continue reading


Things To Do That Make You Happy

Yes, it is again one of these days. The sky is grey, there is no sun and you have no motivation what so ever. I know this feeling too well. I have sometimes a real problem finding a leisure activity which fulfils me with delight. Do not get me wrong, I do many things, which I enjoy, but when you are not motivated, it is hard to start an activity. The difficulty actually just lies in the beginning, because often when you already have started doing something fun you will enjoy it anyway. There are several small things one can do to feel better. Like, for example, lightening a candle, but this only takes some seconds and on weekends when I have more spare time I would have to lighten a million candles to keep me occupied… Continue reading